Okokuqala, umqondo
Uma sikhuluma nje, ukuqeqesha inja akukona ukuba nonya kuyo.Ngokufanayo, ukuvumela inja yenze noma yini eyifunayo akukhona ngempela ukuyithanda inja.Izinja zidinga isiqondiso esiqinile futhi zingakhathazeka uma zingafundiswa indlela yokusabela ezimweni ezihlukahlukene.
1. Nakuba igama liwukuqeqesha inja, injongo yakho konke ukuqeqeshwa kuwukufundisa umniniyo ukuxhumana nokuxhumana kangcono nenja.Phela, i-IQ yethu nokuqonda kuphakeme kunokwabo, ngakho-ke kudingeka sikuqonde futhi sikuvumelanise nakho.Uma ungafundisi noma ungakhulumisani kahle, ungalindeli ukuthi inja izozama ukuzivumelanisa nawe, izovele icabange ukuthi awuyena umholi oqotho futhi ngeke ikuhloniphe.
2. Ukuqeqeshwa kwezinja kusekelwe ekukhulumisaneni okuphumelelayo.Izinja azikuqondi esikushoyo, kodwa ukuxhumana okuphumelelayo kufanele kuqinisekise ukuthi izifiso zomnikazi kanye nezimfuneko zidluliselwa enja, okungukuthi, inja kufanele yazi ukuthi ukuziphatha okuthile kwayo kulungile noma akulungile, ukuze ukuqeqeshwa. kungaba nenjongo.Uma umshaya futhi umthethisa, kodwa engazi ukuthi wone ngani, kuyomane kumenze akwesabe, futhi ukuziphatha kwakhe ngeke kulungiswe.Ukuze uthole imininingwane yokuthi ungaxhumana kanjani, sicela uqhubeke nokufunda ngezansi.
3. Lokho okufingqayo ukuthi ukuqeqeshwa kwezinja kufanele kube okwesikhathi eside, futhi ngokufanayo, okuphindaphindwayo, kanye namaphasiwedi ayadingeka ngempela phakathi nokuqeqeshwa.Isibonelo, uma uqeqesha inja ukuthi ihlale phansi, udinga ukuyenza kanye kuphela.Ngethemba ukuthi angayifunda ngosuku olulodwa, futhi akunakwenzeka ukuqala ukulalela ngakusasa;Sebenzisa le phasiwedi.Uma kuguqulwa kungazelelwe ukuthi "baby hlala phansi" kusasa, ngeke akwazi ukukuqonda.Uma eyishintsha ephindelela, uzodideka futhi ngeke akwazi ukufunda lesi senzo;isenzo esifanayo singafundwa kuphela ngemva kwezikhathi eziphindaphindiwe, futhi kufanele siqiniswe ngenkuthalo ngemva kokufunda.Uma ufunda ukuhlala phansi futhi ungayisebenzisi njalo, inja izokhohlwa;inja ngeke idwebe okucatshangelwayo esibonelweni esisodwa, ngakho-ke indawo ibaluleke kakhulu ezimweni eziningi.Izinja eziningi zifunda ukulalela imiyalo ekhaya, kodwa aziqondi ngempela ukuthi umyalo ofanayo uyasebenza kuzo zonke izimo lapho ziphuma futhi zishintsha indawo yangaphandle.
4. Ngokusekelwe ku-Athikili 2 no-3, kusebenza kahle kakhulu ukuba nemiklomelo ecacile nezijeziso.Uma uqinisile, uzovuzwa, futhi uma wenza iphutha, uzojeziswa.Isijeziso singabandakanya ukushaywa, kodwa ukushaya ngobudlova nokuqhubeka nokushaywa akunconywa.Uma uqhubeka nokushaya, uthola ukuthi ukumelana nenja ekushayweni kuya ngokuya kuba ngcono usuku nosuku, ekugcineni ngelinye ilanga uthole ukuthi noma ushaye kangakanani kodwa ngeke kusebenze.Futhi ukushaywa kufanele kwenziwe lapho inja yazi ukuthi kungani ishaywe, futhi inja engakaze iqonde ukuthi kungani ishaywe izomesaba umniniyo, futhi ubuntu bayo buzozwela futhi bube namahloni.Isifinyezo siwukuthi: ngaphandle kokuthi ubambe isikhwama ngaso leso sikhathi lapho inja yenza iphutha, ingenza inja ibone ngokucacile ukuthi yenze iphutha ngakho iyashaywa, futhi isibhamu sinzima kakhulu.Akusebenzi kahle njengoba abantu abaningi becabanga.Ukushaya inja akukhuthazwa!Ukushaya inja akukhuthazwa!Ukushaya inja akukhuthazwa!
5. Ukuqeqeshwa kusekelwe esimisweni sokuthi inja iyasihlonipha isikhundla sobuholi benkosi.Ngikholwa ukuthi wonke umuntu uyizwile inkolelo-mbono yokuthi "izinja zinekhono kakhulu ekubekeni amakhala ebusweni bazo".Uma inja inomuzwa wokuthi umniniyo ungaphansi kwayo, ukuqeqesha ngeke kuphumelele.
6. I-IQ kaGouzi ayiphezulu kangako, ngakho ungalindeli okuningi kakhulu.Indlela kaGouzi yokucabanga ilula kakhulu: ukuziphatha okuthile - thola impendulo (enhle noma engemihle) - phinda futhi ujulise umbono - futhi ekugcineni uphumelele.Jezisa izenzo ezingalungile futhi ufundise izenzo ezifanele endaweni efanayo ukuze ziphumelele.Asikho isidingo sokuba nemicabango enjengale "inja yami iyimpisi, ngiyiphatha kahle futhi isangiluma", noma umusho ofanayo, inja ayihlakaniphile ngokwanele ukuqonda ukuthi uma uyiphethe kahle, unayo. ukukuhlonipha..Inhlonipho yenja isekelwe kakhulu esimeni esisungulwe umnikazi wayo nasezimfundisweni ezinengqondo.
7. Ukuhamba kanye ne-neutering kungadambisa izinkinga eziningi zokuziphatha, ikakhulukazi ezinjeni zesilisa.
Nakuba igama liwukuqeqesha inja, injongo yakho konke ukuqeqeshwa iwukufundisa umniniyo ukuxhumana nokuxhumana kangcono nenja.Phela, i-IQ yethu nokuqonda kuphakeme kunokwabo, ngakho-ke kudingeka sikuqonde futhi sikuvumelanise nakho.Uma ungafundisi noma ungakhulumisani kahle, ungalindeli ukuthi inja izozama ukuzivumelanisa nawe, izovele icabange ukuthi awuyena umholi oqotho futhi ngeke ikuhloniphe.
Ukuqeqeshwa kwezinja kusekelwe ekukhulumisaneni okuphumelelayo.Izinja azikuqondi esikushoyo, kodwa ukuxhumana okuphumelelayo kufanele kuqinisekise ukuthi izifiso zomnikazi kanye nezimfuneko zidluliselwa enja, okungukuthi, inja kufanele yazi ukuthi ukuziphatha okuthile kwayo kulungile noma akulungile, ukuze ukuqeqeshwa. kungaba nenjongo.Uma umshaya futhi umthethisa, kodwa engazi ukuthi wone ngani, kuyomane kumenze akwesabe, futhi ukuziphatha kwakhe ngeke kulungiswe.Ukuze uthole imininingwane yokuthi ungaxhumana kanjani, sicela uqhubeke nokufunda ngezansi.
Lokho okufingqayo ukuthi ukuqeqeshwa kwezinja kufanele kube okwesikhathi eside, futhi ngokufanayo, okuphindaphindwayo, namaphasiwedi ayadingeka ngempela ngesikhathi sokuqeqeshwa.Isibonelo, uma uqeqesha inja ukuthi ihlale phansi, udinga ukuyenza kanye kuphela.Ngethemba ukuthi angayifunda ngosuku olulodwa, futhi akunakwenzeka ukuqala ukulalela ngakusasa;Sebenzisa le phasiwedi.Uma kuguqulwa kungazelelwe ukuthi "baby hlala phansi" kusasa, ngeke akwazi ukukuqonda.Uma eyishintsha ephindelela, uzodideka futhi ngeke akwazi ukufunda lesi senzo;isenzo esifanayo singafundwa kuphela ngemva kwezikhathi eziphindaphindiwe, futhi kufanele siqiniswe ngenkuthalo ngemva kokufunda.Uma ufunda ukuhlala phansi futhi ungayisebenzisi njalo, inja izokhohlwa;inja ngeke idwebe okucatshangelwayo esibonelweni esisodwa, ngakho-ke indawo ibaluleke kakhulu ezimweni eziningi.Izinja eziningi zifunda ukulalela imiyalo ekhaya, kodwa aziqondi ngempela ukuthi umyalo ofanayo uyasebenza kuzo zonke izimo lapho ziphuma futhi zishintsha indawo yangaphandle.
4. Ngokusekelwe ku-Athikili 2 no-3, kusebenza kahle kakhulu ukuba nemiklomelo ecacile nezijeziso.Uma uqinisile, uzovuzwa, futhi uma wenza iphutha, uzojeziswa.Isijeziso singabandakanya ukushaywa, kodwa ukushaya ngobudlova nokuqhubeka nokushaywa akunconywa.Uma uqhubeka nokushaya, uthola ukuthi ukumelana nenja ekushayweni kuya ngokuya kuba ngcono usuku nosuku, ekugcineni ngelinye ilanga uthole ukuthi noma ushaye kangakanani kodwa ngeke kusebenze.Futhi ukushaywa kufanele kwenziwe lapho inja yazi ukuthi kungani ishaywe, futhi inja engakaze iqonde ukuthi kungani ishaywe izomesaba umniniyo, futhi ubuntu bayo buzozwela futhi bube namahloni.Isifinyezo siwukuthi: ngaphandle kokuthi ubambe isikhwama ngaso leso sikhathi lapho inja yenza iphutha, ingenza inja ibone ngokucacile ukuthi yenze iphutha ngakho iyashaywa, futhi isibhamu sinzima kakhulu.Akusebenzi kahle njengoba abantu abaningi becabanga.Ukushaya inja akukhuthazwa!Ukushaya inja akukhuthazwa!Ukushaya inja akukhuthazwa!
5. Ukuqeqeshwa kusekelwe esimisweni sokuthi inja iyasihlonipha isikhundla sobuholi benkosi.Ngikholwa ukuthi wonke umuntu uyizwile inkolelo-mbono yokuthi "izinja zinekhono kakhulu ekubekeni amakhala ebusweni bazo".Uma inja inomuzwa wokuthi umniniyo ungaphansi kwayo, ukuqeqesha ngeke kuphumelele.
6. I-IQ kaGouzi ayiphezulu kangako, ngakho ungalindeli okuningi kakhulu.Indlela kaGouzi yokucabanga ilula kakhulu: ukuziphatha okuthile - thola impendulo (enhle noma engemihle) - phinda futhi ujulise umbono - futhi ekugcineni uphumelele.Jezisa izenzo ezingalungile futhi ufundise izenzo ezifanele endaweni efanayo ukuze ziphumelele.Asikho isidingo sokuba nemicabango enjengale "inja yami iyimpisi, ngiyiphatha kahle futhi isangiluma", noma umusho ofanayo, inja ayihlakaniphile ngokwanele ukuqonda ukuthi uma uyiphethe kahle, unayo. ukukuhlonipha..Inhlonipho yenja isekelwe kakhulu esimeni esisungulwe umnikazi wayo nasezimfundisweni ezinengqondo.
7. Ukuhamba kanye ne-neutering kungadambisa izinkinga eziningi zokuziphatha, ikakhulukazi ezinjeni zesilisa.
8. Ngicela ungathathi isinqumo sokulahla inja ngoba nje ayilaleli.Cabanga ngakho ngokucophelela, ingabe usuyifezile yonke imithwalo yemfanelo okufanele ube nayo njengengcweti?Umfundise kahle?Noma ingabe ulindele ukuba ahlakaniphe kangangokuthi akudingekile ukuba umfundise ukuthi uzofunda okuthandayo ngokuzenzekelayo?Ingabe uyayazi ngempela inja yakho?uyajabula Ingabe umuhle ngempela?Akusho ukuthi ukumphakela, ukumgeza nokumosha imali kuyamsiza.Ngicela ungamshiyi yedwa ekhaya isikhathi eside.Ukuphuma uhambe nenja akwanele ukuchama.Udinga nokuzivocavoca nabangane.Ngicela ungabi nalo umqondo wokuthi "inja yami kufanele ithembeke futhi ilalele, futhi kufanele ishaywe yimi".Uma ufuna ukuhlonishwa yinja yakho, kudingeka futhi uhloniphe izidingo zayo eziyisisekelo.
9. Sicela ungacabangi ukuthi inja yakho inolaka kunezinye izinja.Kuwukuziphatha kahle ukukhonkotha uma uphuma.Lokhu kuzothusa abadlula ngendlela, futhi kuyisizathu sokuqala sokungqubuzana kwabantu nezinja.Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinja ezikwazi ukukhonkotha kalula noma ezinokuziphatha okunolaka ngokuvamile zikhathazekile futhi aziphumuli, okungesona isimo sengqondo esizinzile nesinempilo sezinja.Sicela ukhulise inja yakho ngendlela ephucuzekile.Ungavumeli inja ibe nomuzwa wokuthi uwedwa futhi awunakuzisiza ngenxa yokungakwazi umniniyo, futhi ungabangeli izinkinga kwabanye.
10. Ngicela ungalindeli futhi ufune okuningi kuGouzi, futhi ngicela ungakhonondi ngokuthi ugangile, akalaleli futhi akazi lutho.Njengomnikazi wezinja, udinga ukuqonda: okokuqala, wenze isinqumo sokugcina inja, futhi wakhetha ukuthatha inja ekhaya, ngakho-ke kufanele ubhekane nokuhle nokubi kwakhe njengomnikazi.Okwesibili, uGouzi unguGouzi, awukwazi ukumfuna njengomuntu, futhi akunangqondo ukulindela ukuthi azokwenza lokho akushoyo ngokushesha nje lapho efundisa.Okwesithathu, uma inja isencane, kumele uqonde ukuthi iseyingane, isahlola umhlaba futhi izama ukujwayelana nomnikazi wayo, kujwayelekile ukuthi igijime ixakeke ngoba isaqhubeka. usemncane, wena kanye nokuzwana kwakhe futhi kuyinqubo yokuqondana nokuzivumelanisa nezimo.Kuyimfuneko engenakwenzeka ukulindela ukuthi ikubone njengomphathi ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngemva kokuba ibuyile ekhaya futhi iqonda igama layo.Sekukonke, izinga lenja libonisa ngokuqondile ikhwalithi yomnikazi.Lapho unikeza inja isikhathi esiningi nemfundo, yilapho izokwazi ukukwenza kangcono.
11. Sicela ungalethi imizwelo yomuntu siqu, njengokuthukuthela nokukhungatheka, lapho uqeqesha izinja (kungani kungenjalo ngemva kokufundisa izikhathi eziningi kangaka).Zama ukuba nenhloso ngangokunokwenzeka ekuqeqesheni izinja futhi nixoxe ngamaqiniso njengoba emile.
12. Zama ukuvimbela ukuziphatha okungalungile futhi uqondise ukuziphatha okufanele ngaphambi kokuba inja yenze amaphutha.
13. Ulimi lwabantu inja engaluqonda lulinganiselwe kakhulu, ngakho ngemva kokwenza okuthile okungalungile, ukusabela okusheshayo komnikazi kanye nokusingatha (ulimi lomzimba) kuphumelela kakhulu kunolimi olukhulunywayo nokuqeqeshwa ngamabomu.Indlela kaGouzi yokucabanga igxile kakhulu ekuziphatheni nasemiphumeleni.Emehlweni kaGouzi, zonke izenzo zakhe zizoholela emiphumeleni ethile.Ngaphezu kwalokho, isikhathi sezinja zokugxilisa ingqondo sifushane kakhulu, ngakho-ke ukufika kwesikhathi kubaluleke kakhulu lapho kuvuza futhi kujeziswa.Ngamanye amazwi, njengomnikazi, konke okwenzayo kuyimpendulo nokuqeqeshwa kokuziphatha kwenja.
Ukunikeza isibonelo esilula, lapho inja u-Ahua inezinyanga ezi-3 ubudala, yayithanda ukuluma izandla zayo.Njalo lapho eluma umnikazi wakhe u-F, u-F wayethi cha futhi athinte u-Ahua ngesandla esisodwa, ngethemba lokuthi uzoyeka ukuluma..U-F waba nomuzwa wokuthi ukuqeqeshwa kwakhe kusendaweni, ngakho wathi cha, wabe esephusha u-Ah Hua, kodwa u-Ah Hua wayengakwazi ukufunda ukungalumi, ngakho wayekhungatheke kakhulu.
Iphutha lalokhu kuziphatha ukuthi inja icabanga ukuthi ukuthintwa kuwumvuzo/ukudlala nayo, kodwa ukusabela kuka-F ngokushesha ngemuva kokulunywa kuka-Ah Hua wukuyithinta.Ngamanye amazwi, inja izohlobanisa ukuluma = ukuthintwa = ukuvuzwa, ngakho engqondweni yakhe umnikazi ukhuthaza ukuziphatha kokuluma.Kepha ngasikhathi sinye, u-F futhi ngeke anikeze imiyalelo yomlomo, futhi u-Ah Hua uyaqonda futhi ukuthi akukho myalelo kusho ukuthi wenze okuthile okungalungile.Ngakho-ke, u-Ahua waba nomuzwa wokuthi inkosi yayizivuza kuyilapho ithi yayenze okuthile okungalungile, ngakho wayengaqondi ukuthi isenzo sokuluma isandla sakhe sasilungile noma sasingalungile.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Dec-01-2023
